Selfishness

How does one know whether s/he is selfish ?

Are there symptoms ?

Well, the symptoms are not so obvious for those who believe that they are good and white hearted people

For it is difficult for one with such an ego to believe s/he is the opposite of his/her facade

I think what I am trying to say is that:

Being self-centered does not necessarily mean being selfish !

When someone is talking about him/herself, and the receiver changes the topic towards him/herself, s/he is just being self-centered !

But selfishness is a very different concept

It is, for me, taking without giving

Basically, without caring for giving

That's what I mainly do

I never mean to, and always regret the fact that I did

But it is just something that has already happened "5ala9"

It is just that... I am not good at expressing my feelings !

I don't really say : I love you, I miss you, I care about you

I don't even say : I want, I need, I feel...

People just don't understand it this way

When my friend says : I love you ! I only say : me too !

So she yells at me saying that me too is not enough !

I know that it is not enough, but it is out of my hands

Things will change, I can see that coming, just hope it does in rapidity !